Our Venerable Bishop Mor Makarios

by: Rev. Fr. K. K John, Philadelphia

I came to know Makarios Thirumeni in 1974 through his book, "Marthomma Simhaasanam Oru Noothana Srustiyo?" I was then a very zealous activist in the patriarchal faction. Arguing against, I wrote and sent a letter to his Detroit address.

From 2002 I had close contacts with Mor Makarios Thirumeni. One day he called and asked me to conduct services at St Gregorious Center, NY for 5 Sundays (leave vacancy) and I agreed. Then we met on numerous occasions, participated in Moonninmel, marriage, and funeral services. Indeed, it was always a pleasure to be with him. He discussed how to conduct liturgy with participating priests and even sought our opinions. He congratulated and introduced the clergies to the audience and thanked us for participating, etc. When we were in the room we could discuss any matter without fear or reservation; I suggested many changes in the church, such as enhanced role for women, married bishops, canonical privileges of Corepisopos, St. Thomas Day celebration of December 18-21, etc, thirumeni always gave a patient hearing, a promising look and laugh and fitting repartees.

What comes to mind most when I think of Mor Makarios is the picture of Chacha Nehru playing with kids. One day after a long service in St Mary's cathedral, we sat around the dinner table. About 15 kids surrounded thirumeni, some sat on his lap, one on right leg and another on the left, one pulled him from the back another from the side; they were all rushing to catch his attention and hug him. I watched the commotion gleefully for some time. Thirumeni was in very happy and smiling, received kisses and hugs from all of them. He told me, "I get many kisses." Yes, he was children's thirumeni, a favorite of all kids and I consider that quality a great but rare embellishment. I have never seen him angry. His company was worth cherishing.

In his passing away, we lost a great bishop, historian, theologian and above all a loving father. He always captivated his audience with wits. He had a rare skill to make others laugh. I always applauded his gifted voice, flawless rhythm and relaxed demeanor in conducting the services in an immaculate style. His exalted qualities far outweigh his failures, if any. American Diocese shall never forget its founding father. Our parish had the most intimate relationship with thirumeni; he cared us so much and blessed us with his presence whenever so needed and kept our parish going despite troubles at times. In the spiritual sense, we console that we have one more advocate to plead for our frailties to our Lord. Our duty, as his spiritual children, is to keep his memory alive; it is biblical. "Remember those who have spoken the word of God, whose faith follow, considering the outcome of their conduct," Heb 13:7.

As for him, scripture says, "Go your way till the end and you shall rest and stand for your reward at the end of the days," Dan 12:13.

May his soul rest in peace.